There are a few indicators of interest that many men miss out on. Photo by Asad Photo Maldives from PexelsA lot of guys find themselves with a romantic interest in Latina women. So much so that these guys find themselves logging on to dating websites in order to find such women who are possibly going to date them. But when they do get on the date, these men may find themselves at a loss as to how these women feel about them.
See, romantic interest is something that should ideally go both ways. If you’re interested in a woman, it would be nice if she’s interested in you, too. But not every man can tell if his feelings are reciprocated or not because he may not be well versed in differentiating positive from negative body language.
Now, the importance of body language cannot be stressed enough when dating. After all, the little gestures that a person makes can be a great indicator of their interest in the person that they are with. Of course, a man who is not the most experienced when it comes to dating may miss out on these signs that a girl is interested in them in a romantic sense.
Some indicators are a little more obvious than others. A person can give off a vibe when they display positive body language. Not everyone can pick up on this vibe, but it’s generally there when a person wants it to be. If you are dating Latina women, here are some signs to look out for:
Leaning In
Body language is one of the great indicators that a woman is interested in you, but not everyone is fully aware of how to read it. Reading that type of thing is pretty instinctual in some people, but there are those that never learned how. It’s like reading actual words, some people had the opportunity to learn it and others didn’t.
One great indicator of romantic interest is the way a person positions their body in relation to the person they are with. Uncrossed arms and leaning in towards the other person is a great indicator of some level of interest that might become attraction at some point in the future.
Conversely, crossed arms can be a defensive gesture, which can indicate a lack of romantic interest. Leaning away from the person that they are with can also be a great indicator that they are not interested in that person.
Other gestures that may be seen as flirty are more playful. If a girl is playing with her hair, then that can be a sign that she’s interested in you.
Constant Touching
Some women, including Latina women, can be very tactile in their affection. This means that they constantly touch the person who is the object of said affection and not even in an intimate way.
These touches can be little things, like a few taps on the shoulder or even something as infinitesimal as her hand lightly brushing against yours. Whatever the case, the tactile connection of touch is one of the great indicators of interest.
Planning Ahead
Another great way to tell if someone is interested in you or not is in the way that they make plans. If a person is interested in another person, then they are going to want to make plans for the future with them.
Not in the sense that they want to settle down, share a mortgage and have a bunch of kids, but in the sense that they’d like to spend more time with that person, such as suggesting other things to do in the future or even planning future dates. The more you go out with each other, then maybe they can put themselves in a position where the settling down and the trapping thereof are a possibility.
Now, if the person is not interested, then they are going to be pretty non committal about more dates. They’ll avoid giving concrete answers when the person they are with makes plans for future dates or they’ll give unenthusiastic responses.
If you say you want to take somewhere next week or something, they’ll probably say maybe or that they’ll check their schedule. If a person’s schedule is always full and there’s no time in which they can go out on a date with you, then that can be an indication that her feelings are not all that strong.
Of course, if their schedule is pretty free and open when you want to take them out, then it can be a great indicator that they are eager to spend more time with you and might be willing to move some other commitments around to make it happen.
They Want to Share Things with You
Eye contact is an important facet of attraction and sharing it can be an intimate gesture. But that’s not the only thing two people who might be on the way to becoming a couple can share with one another.
One thing that they can share are their interests. Basically, if a girl is trying to get you interested in something she likes, then it’s a pretty good sign that she’s interested in you because she wants to be able to indulge in that interest while spending time with you.
So if she is trying to get you into something that she’s into, like musical theater or something like that, then it’s a great sign that the relationship is going in a positive direction. Also, her interests are great jumping off points for future dates.
She’ll Say It Outright
Now, declarations of love are dramatic and all. Watch any movie wherein romance is a major plot element and the climax will more than likely have some declaration of love from one character to another (generally with some sweeping orchestral music involved). When done well, it can be a very dramatic and emotional climax for a story.
In real life, such declarations are a little more lowkey, but for the people involved, they are no less dramatic or emotional. Someone saying outright that they are interested in you can be the sweetest song in the world, it can be the exact thing that you want or need to hear and it can be the single greatest moment of your life.
If you want to try and date Latina women, then it is generally good if you get familiar with the little gestures that might be indicative of romantic interest in you. Knowing them can help you not waste your time and also adjust your behavior to be more attractive to them.
